Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Conversation from Wangdue to Thimphu

I am not much of a talker, but whenever I travel by a Bus or a Taxi I respond to whoever asking me questions because I do not want to be rude.

Last week I had to travel from Wangdue to Thimphu by a taxi. My uncle drove me till the taxi parking in the Bajo town and even before stopping a few drivers started shouting names of places they were traveling. A young taxi driver shouted Thimphu, Thimphu and my uncle responded yes one passenger for Thimphu. I was the first passenger so we had to wait for 30 minutes before we had three other passengers.

It was interesting that all the passages (four of us) were women. One was coming to Thimphu for the first time, one was going to renew her trade license and was planning to travel back to Wangdue the same day and the other one, I think lives in Thimphu.

As I was the first passenger, I had the privilege of taking the front seat. It was like I was sitting on a hot seat, as the driver kept shooting questions at me.

Driver: Are you a student?
Me: No ( smiling within thinking, do I look so young?)

Driver: Do you work?
Me: Yes

Driver: Where?
Me: NGO

Driver:WHat is your qualification?
Me: 15
Driver: Ohh! A graduate?
Me: Yes
Driver: Every person I run into seems to be a graduate these days
Me: True, because it is so difficult to get a job

Driver: Where do you stay?
Me: Near the town ( thinking, how his question changed all of a sudden)

Driver: have a family?
Me: Live with my parents

Driver: How come the three ladies at the back are very quite? He looks back but the three women just sit quietly.

He then gets a phone call from someone who is asking the price of his taxi. I become curious and then I start shooting questions at him

Me: Are you selling this vehicle?
Driver: Yes

Me: How Much?
Driver: Nu 360000

Me: How old is your car?
Driver: Two years

Driver: Do you think its in a good conduction?
Me: I have not much ideas about vehicles..

Then we talk about cars and brands and suddenly, we speak of monthly incomes. I have no idea how our conversation reached there but this is what I vaguely recollect.

Me: I heard Taxi Drivers earn a lot
Driver: No, its just around Nu 30,000 to 40,000 on an average
Me: That is higher than what most civil servants earn
Driver: Is that Much, I earned Nu 90,000 one time
Me: No wonder, taxi drivers keep on changing their vehicles

Driver: This however, depends on the drivers. There are some married taxi drivers who say they are going to find passengers from home but hardly work. They have affairs so keep roaming. There are also some who play snooker the whole day and some who spend most of their money on girls.Some who spend huge amounts on the phones.  One has to be very hard working. If a taxi driver says he does not have much income, it means he is doing either of these.

Me: Ohh! really

Driver: I even know a doctor in Thimphu who drives a taxi just for fun. He does this so that he has a reason to come out of the house and keep roaming till late hours.

He then started talking about the kidnapping cases in Gelephu and then about politics. Then both of us become quite till we reach Semotkha. He then starts asking where each one of us want to be dropped, but he also mentions he is just making one stop. So all of us said Taxi parking.


When I recollect today, it was a conservation all mixed up :)















Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Our National Flag

I have always admired the big national flag fluttering outside the Tashichhodzong in Thimphu. I always assumed that the caretaker or probably a police on duty would come and hoist the flag every morning, in an ordinary way.

However, recently I had a meeting at the dzong and the meeting was over at 4:50 PM. By the time I came out of the dzong and started walking toward the parking lot, office time was already over. I saw three monks fully dressed (as if going for a ceremony) coming behind me followed by a group of policemen well dressed for drill. I was confused and thought they were going to the palace but they were actually going to bring down the flag. It was such a beautiful process and I though to myself, if bringing down requires such a process, I wonder how they hoist it.

Luckily I had a camera with me, so I got to take some picture of the process.





























Monday, March 11, 2013

I Got Flowers Today...



 By Paulette Kelly

I got flowers today.
It wasn't my birthday or any other special day.


We had our first argument last night,
And he said a lot of cruel things that really hurt me.


I know he is sorry and didn't mean the things he said.
Because he sent me flowers today.



I got flowers today.
It wasn't our anniversary or any other special day.


Last night, he threw me into a wall and started to choke me.
It seemed like a nightmare.
I couldn't believe it was real.
I woke up this morning sore and bruised all over.


I know he must be sorry.
Because he sent me flowers today.




I got flowers today,
And it wasn't Mother's Day or any other special day.


Last night, he beat me up again.
And it was much worse than all the other times.
If I leave him, what will I do?
How will I take care of my kids?
What about money?
I'm afraid of him and scared to leave.


But I know he must be sorry.
Because he sent me flowers today.

I got flowers today.


Today was a very special day.
It was the day of my funeral.


Last night, he finally killed me.
He beat me to death.


If only I had gathered enough courage
and strength to leave him,
I would not have gotten flowers...today.